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Babesclub: “a group of empowered women owning their lives and supporting other women on their journey to do the same”
I’m 36 years old and I feel young and old at the same time. I sit and reminisce over the good ole days while pumping Beyonce on the bluetooth speaker.
While trying to decide on a name for my boudoir business I was drawn to the word babe. It’s a fun word, light-hearted and cool. Not cool by today’s standards but back in the days of Saved by the Bell and what was my favourite show Blossom, it was cool. I feel nostalgic and happy, I feel like I belong to an era of innocence that my kids will never know.
I also thought about the fact that in addition to getting older, over the years I’ve been getting lonelier and that’s no bueno. My friendships seemed to slowly vanish the day I became an adult.
The thing is, it’s not just me. I have heard the plight of so many women like myself that have realized they spend most of their time alone. They don't have their person or their tribe. Yes they have their family but they don't have those close personal friendships with other women that we really benefit from.
Alot of the time it's because we put those relationships on the back burner (until they are gone) because we too busy trying to be a success. We have adopted the idea of what society says is a successful life for women. Success at work, success as mothers, success as wives/partners that we stopped spending time with our girlfriends, developed anxiety from the daily stress of trying to be a success and can’t remember who the hell we used to be and are afraid of becoming who the hell we want to be.
This desperate need to appear successful and show the perfect Facebook or Instagram life has cut some of us off from true relationships with one another and left us feeling isolated, not good enough and confused about what we really want.
Seriously, I look at Instagram photos of young woman with their butts out, yoga' ing it up and think, I wish I could do that but my butts not so perfect. Then I have to slap myself with a reality check because even if I had the most “perfect” butt, I wouldn’t want it doing yoga. I hate yoga.
Now I bet reading this, you’re thinking I should stick to photography because writing is not my strong suit and you may be right but on with my story. This is my transition sentence.
I miss my friends, I miss laughing until my belly hurts and my eyes fill with tears. I want to belong to something, something fun and important.
I want to be a part of something bigger than myself and that’s when I decided to create a club. An exclusive inclusive club, a you can sit with us club of Bold, Ambitious, Beautiful, Empowered Sexy women that are:
owning their lives
owning their dreams, desires and decisions
owning their bodies, their sexuality and their strength
owning their power
And because they are so badass they are helping other woman on their journey. Who wouldn't want to be part of a club like that?
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